I was always taught that it's better to not say anything and have people think you're dumb than to open your mouth and have it confirmed, but I do know that such thinking is wrong.

Each time a woman is asked to make copies, get coffee and take notes during staff meetings this stereotype is perpetuated. I found it to be extremely outdated and anti-feminist, in fact, being a woman was portrayed as the ultimate weakness. Frankel reveals a distinctive set of behaviors–over 130 in all–that women learn in girlhood that ultimately sabotage them as adults. It has given me some great tips on how to act professionally and what all I need to do to help make a successful career.I think there is a tasteful balance in terms of the amount of makeup, jewelry, and fragrance people should wear. I find most outdated the overall premise of the book: that women should be more like power hungry american corporate men rather than meeting in the middle.

Frankel, you can begin changing your behavior in the workplace to ensure that you are respected, listened to, and taken seriously. Not only do women have to be conscious of when they smile but they also need to be conscious of what they wear. In fact, women have been known to get fewer promotions because of their lack of sponsors compared to their male counterparts who have secured one.I also loved that Frankel recommends a plethora of other resources and career coaching books throughout. Ook al ben ik nog aan het studeren, ik vond dat er veel fouten in stonden die mij mogelijk ook zouden overkomen. In my experience, it's rare to come across a white woman who can see and relate to our added challenges. Telling me I need to grow up (into a woman) and put my big girl panties on but don't be too feminine about it.