Silver Daddy Jingle Bells: A steamy, bisexual awakenings, age gap festive gay romance

Product Information

Daddy was an older guy who had a strong personality, wouldn’t take no for an answer, and got on top of you. But there’s still a lot of stigma and misinterpretation around age-gap relationships, so even though many of the men I spoke to were openly gay or bisexual, they don’t always talk about their age-gap relationships outside of other LGBT groups. On mainstream hookup sites like Grindr or Tinder, you will see someone describe themselves as a “young daddy.

Daddies are not particularly defined by their appearance, but more by their demeanour and the way they carry themselves.Many people think of a daddy as a desirable, confident older man who may be paired with a younger partner. In the ongoing effort of gay taxonomy, daddy has broadened rather than become more specific, unlike bear and its sub-phylums of otter, seal, wolf, and so on. Printed on 100% cotton watercolour textured paper, Silver Daddy art prints would be at home in any gallery. There are now tons of non-leather daddy porn sites, a hookup app, Daddyhunt, for “Gay Daddies, Silver Daddies, Muscle Daddies, Bears, Leather Daddies, Big Daddies, and Daddy-Lovers.

Whether or not you identify as a gay Daddy or not, you never have to lie about your age (or anything else) to meet other men. If you miss your appointment with me, your payment is forfeit and you will need to schedule and purchase another time. In contrast to what many people assume, I found little evidence of widespread power differences that harmed either the younger or older men. Contrary to the popular stereotype of older men going after younger guys, it was often younger men who approached them on dating apps once they had silver hair or had other physical markers of aging, and that really sparked their transformation into a daddy. Though they seemed so different, and came together in a very pragmatic transaction, I could see the connection developing, because both were open, at that stage in their lives, to change for the better.He bakes to indulge his dangerously sweet tooth, admires unaffordable classic cars, and drinks pink wine with friends.

Tony Silva (he/him), analyzes the stories of gay and bisexual daddies and asks why younger adult men are interested in older men for sex and relationships. It says something important, in that age, wealth, cultural differences and gender shouldn’t stand in the way of genuine love. Among gay men, an older guy with grey hair who still has a youthful appearance and is considered attractive because of those attributes. For many of the older men I spoke to, being a daddy was not just about age and sexual and romantic partnerships, but also a sense of responsibility, mentorship and guidance.

An informal poll of men reveals that there seems to be an uptick of younger men who are interested in guys of my “seasoned” age bracket.

Please note: Grant and Matt go on a voyage of emotional discovery which they very much need to have sex about.The story could have been tightened up a little, as it seemed overlong for what it was, but I would definitely recommend for a light but meaningful festive read, aglow with Christmas magic.